”Connect with your feminine body” will tackle the 7 female developmental stages and how to resolve the psychosomatic blockages in each of them. It is a workbook on Femindipity, my 7-step healing method I use in my coaching.
*Read the story of how I changed my incredible career into an even more amazing one, so I can use my full potential and serve my life-purpose: helping people.
**The official webiste launches in November 2019 and anybody can contact me and join my online programme.
Why did I switch to coaching?
Working daily with female patients as a gynecologist in Germany, I have come across women who have dealt with PAIN and LOSS in all areas and stages of life. After listening to their stories, I realised they would profit more from a holistic therapy than the usual treatment.
The majority of my patients needed a FRIEND not a DOCTOR. They needed a TALK more than a DRUG.
You see, women have a high threshold for pain, so, if there is no biological reason to be found, it doesn’t mean that we should stop searching. Every symptom, no matter how ridiculous, needs to be taken seriously. Pain can have a psychological cause and our minds won’t be healed by a pill, here and there. Physicians are prescribing antidepressants like candy only because they are overwhelmed and clueless themselves! Time and patience are the cure!
That was my AHA moment. If I wanted to really help people, I had to change my approach. I had to make them look for healing in themselves and not project a false *SAVIOR* label on a drug.
So I became a coach.
Working with DESPAIR, FEAR and POWERLESSNESS
I am a well-known and appreciated medical professional after starting a medical blog in my birth-country, Romania, BECAUSE I have a different approach. Honestly, I was unaware of my particularity when I started this project. Now, my Facebook group Femei de la A la Z (Women from A to Z) already has over 15.000 members and my website http://www.drlaurastirbu.com is accesed daily by hundreds of users who specifically seek another type of guidance.
I am not bragging. I am showing you another platform I use to help women. 3 years of online volunteer work with thousands of women have contributed to me understanding the fine psychological patterns of women in need.
My methods have been praised by my followers and I even had shocking propositions.
Some women popped out of the blue online and thanked me for all my indirect support during their pregnancy, which led to them enjoying 9 months of bliss and a carefree labor.
I even have had women who said they would pay 5000 Euros just to come and deliver their baby with me – meaning they would travel from Romania to Germany just to be with me (unrealistic because of birocracy, of course). I have had women who wrote me long e-mails about their pain and how nobody was there for them emotionally, except me. All of them were strangers who watched my LIVE videos and read my blog. All contacts were unsolicited.
No pill can fix these women. What is bothering them is in their heads – different nuances of insecurity. They need sympathy; understanding; guidance. They need an emotional life coach.
I have had hospital patients asking me if I also take private patients before, but I did not realise back then why they felt the need to change physicians. Like I said, I was unaware of the special gift I instinctively had. Luckly my patients 6th sense picked that up and reasured me that I was contibuting with something amazing to the world.
All of the women I have treated one way or the other have helped me unearth my true potential and redefine my life-purpose. They helped me realise that my place is not on a hospital ward, treating a new patient every 5 minutes. I really want to help people change their lives! Somehow ironically, my patients saved me.
After this realisation, came the most difficult part: how could I help more women overcome these emotional blockages and finally live a more fullfilled life? How could I do it more efficiently? I knew I had to go big and get my new findings out there, on the biggest platform there is: the internet. I structured all my knowledge and I developed Femindipity – the base for all my future projects on self-development: podcast, webinars, training videos, speaking events.
Femindipity is my introspective-fuelled call-to-action method, which helps women reclaim their feminine energy and use it to upgrade their happiness.
My passion for helping my patients as a WHOLE and not as CASES has been my motivation to pursue an intensive research into my field, in order to develop new therapeutical strategies. I observed, talked to and privately counseled many women to test my theories and break down the medical language into words they can relate to. I started out with just a couple of strategies, which were fast and to the point. I did this online and also directly with my patients. Their heartfelt gratitude let me know I was on the right track. (I will detail my process in the up-coming book).
I could not put into words, untill somebody else said it:
”You can really talk to women!”
That is my Gift to the world. My Empathy, my Will to help, my Experience with so many different women who came into contact with me when they were at their lowest.
It took me a while till I gathered the courage to take the first step and sit down in front of a paper with a pen in my hand, in order to write the basics of my method. I did not think that I can do it, that I can develop something than can change the world. But I knew I owed it to all of those women in need to offer some clarity in their emotional chaos.
Femindipity has become my signature standardized method, in which I tackle the milestones in each of the developmental stages of a woman and how to deal with unresolved issues. Therefore it is specifically designed for women and it is centered around the most powerfull energy source women possess, but which has been wrongfully neglected: their femininity.
I grouped all of the knowledge into 3 simple worksheets: 7 developmental stages, 7 milestones and 7 healing steps. It is very flexible and even though I focus mainly on femininity, the method can be extrapolated in all areas of life. Theoretically, everybody can use it to solve every problem that occurs, in which introspection is required.
This 7-step method will also be detailed into a book, as per request of one of the lead female-empowerment speakers worldwide (accreditations in the book). The project will be released in 2020.
A false femininity is being imposed on us since birth and that influences our perception of life more than we women have ever thought. Once we accept our true, organic femininity, then we can grow into the real and strong version of ourselves.
I am excited about this project and the impact it will have on the world! I am already getting amazing feedback from other people envolved, being informed about the succesful life changes my clients have achieved after just a couple of coaching sessions.
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For Connect with your feminine body, I will be conducting interviews with many experts in various fields, ALL driven women, who have made it their purpose in life to help other women with their particular skills. I am very excited that they have agreed to support this project and share their wisdom. They will each contribute with a detailed article on a particular topic on this website, but it is yet to be discussed if their personal stories – I am sure some will be very intimate – will be mentioned anonymously. These stories add to the value of the book+Contact me if you feel you could contribute as well! I am certain that there is an amazing story in each and any one of you! All you have to fill out is a questionaire or have a live-interview with me, personally.